WARNING: This program may cause EXTREME CONFIDENCE in your relationship 😎
Girrrrl, meet your new ride-or-die squad! 🙌
In Healing Girl Gang [a membership created JUST FOR ANXIOUS GIRLIES like you], we'll show you how to embrace the baddie you are, vibe at a frequency that attracts the love you deserve, connect with a partner that SEES YOUR WORTH, and where you get to create the relationship that you've always dreamed of.
Let's Go!This Month's Masterclass
How to Stay Calm and Connected Through Relationship Ups, Downs, or Distance
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💔 Are you stressing over physical or emotional distance from your partner this this holiday season? 😣 You’re not alone. If you’re wondering, “Are we growing apart?” or “Will they forget about me?” it’s time to hit pause. Connection doesn’t have to fade, even with miles or busy schedules.
✨ Join this training to learn how to close communication gaps, create meaningful shared moments, and build excitement to connect, all without feeling “too needy.” Let’s make this holiday season about closeness, not distance. Reserve your spot now to bring the love back into your relationship!
Join NowYou are SO OVER...🙅♀️
🕵️♀️ CONSTANT OVERTHINKING
You're spending more time analyzing his texts than you do on your skincare routine. Every "k" or delayed response sends you into a spiral, and you're exhausted from playing detective in your own relationship. 😫
🎢 THE EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER
One minute things are SO GOOD in your relationship together, the next you're convinced he's about to ghost you. Your ups and downs are giving you whiplash, and honestly? You're ready to get off this ride. 🤢
🥚 WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
You're tiptoeing around your feelings like you're in a minefield, scared that one wrong move will blow everything up when they've given you ZERO reasons to worry. It's exhausting, and you're SO ready to just be yourself without fear. 💣
🆘 NEEDING 24/7 REASSURANCE
You're hitting him up for validation more often than you check Instagram. The constant need for the "are we good?" check-ins is making you feel needy AF, and you don't want to push a good one away. 😩
😵💫 NERVOUS ABOUT THE FUTURE
You're so focused on "where is this going?" that you can't enjoy where you are. The uncertainty is killing you, and you're missing out on the present moment. ⏳
💑 DIFFICULTY BEING VULNERABLE
You're terrified of opening up and getting hurt, so you keep your walls up higher than your standards. But playing the "cool girl" and pretending to be unbothered is leaving you feeling disconnected and alone. 🧱💔
Join us and learn how to heal your anxious attachment, so you can finally relax and be loved for exactly who you are, boo! 💅
Imagine if...
YOU WERE ZEN AF IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Drama? Don't know her. You're so secure, you could teach a masterclass in "Chill Girlfriend Energy". Your friends are wondering what's your secret (spoiler: it's being at peace with yourself). 🧘♀️
YOU FELT WORTHY AND CONFIDENT
You strut into every interaction with your partner feeling confident and chill. Speaking your mind? Easy. Setting boundaries? Second nature. You're royalty hunny, and you know it. 💁♀️
YOU TRUSTED YOURSELF (AND HIM!)
You wake up feeling secure in your relationship, like, actually secure. No more emotional rollercoaster - you're steady, grounded, and loving every minute of it. 🎢➡️🏞️
YOU WERE AUTHENTICALLY YOU
You could show up as your true self in your relationship, quirks and all, without fear of judgment or rejection. And babe, he loves you even more for it! 🦄💖
YOU FOCUSED ON SELF-GROWTH
Your relationship becomes a beautiful backdrop to your personal journey, as you pursue your dreams, crush your goals, and become the best version of yourself. 🚀🌱
YOU ATTRACTED HEALTHY LOVE
You and your partner had a rock-solid connection, built on trust, open communication, and mutual respect. No more drama, just pure, easy love. 🏰💑
👀 LISTEN, BB! THIS GLOW-UP IS YOURS FOR THE TAKING! 💅
This isn't just another boring facebook group and a course, hunny.
In this sisterhood of boss babes, we're ditching the drama, ghosting our anxieties, and glow-ing TF up in our relationships! 💖
Whether you're a chronic overthinker, a reassurance junkie, or just tired of second-guessing every text, we've got your back, sis. 💅 No more overthinking, no more walking on eggshells - just pure, unadulterated confidence.
From Overthinking to Inner Peace 😌
Say goodbye to stale advice and hello to fresh, actionable strategies. Our Monthly Masterclass is where the magic happens - we're talking breakthrough after breakthrough, served up with a side of sass and a whole lot of support. (Live with yours truly + recorded replay for when life gets cray)
Monthly Masterclass
Secret Sisterhood on Insta 👯♀️🔒
Your very own healing clubhouse, babe! Direct access to me and a safe space to share, grow, and transform with sisters who just GET IT. Plus, you'll get motivation and tangible focus points to take action and heal! Our Secret Sisterhood is your judgment-free zone to share, vent, and grow.
Private Insta Sisterhood
Where the Magic Meets the Page📓✍️
Each month you'll get a brand spanking new workbook that gives you access to strategies and exercises that top relationship coaches use with their high-paying clients. Based on the theme for the month, you'll find tips, exercises, homework and all the good stuff to keep you glowing up!
Monthly Workbook
Your Burning Questions, Answered LIVE 🎙️❓
Relationship drama keeping you up at night? Here's your chance to get expert advice, straight from the source! Submit your questions for a shot at being featured LIVE on Clare's weekly podcast. With new winners selected weekly, your chance for personalized, on-air advice is always just around the corner.
Q&A Hotline
From Theory to Practice: Your Healing Roadmap 🗺️💡
Ready to turn those "aha!" moments into REAL change? This workshop is where the rubber meets the road, bb! You'll learn how to weave your newfound knowledge into your daily life. We're talking practical steps, personalized strategies, and all the support you need to make that change stick!
Implementation Workshop
Your Daily Dose of Transformation 📅✨
Say hello to your new BFF: a 21-DAY guide packed with everything you need to keep that healing momentum going strong! Daily worksheets, accountability trackers, mantras, meditations, journaling prompts, and so much more. It's like having Clare in your pocket, cheering you on every step of the way.
21-Day Action Taker Toolkit
Your Monthly Glow-Up Check-In 💖📞
Imagine having a direct line to Clare and your soul sisters every month. Join an intimate group coaching call where you can get personalized advice, work through your challenges, and celebrate your wins. It's like a power-packed therapy session, girl talk, and motivational seminar all rolled into one!
Group Coaching Call
Level Up Your Healing (With Prizes!) 🏆🎉
Who said healing can't be fun? Each month, we're throwing down the gauntlet with challenges designed to keep you consistent and motivated. Stay on track, crush your goals, and you might just win some amazing prizes. It's a win-win: level up your healing AND potentially snag some goodies.
Monthly Challenges
The Results You Can Expect...
UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE
You'll be radiating BDE (Big Diana Energy) in every area of your life. Work, love, friendships - you name it, you'll be slaying it! 👑
EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCE
Your happiness no longer hinges on your partner's mood or actions. You're the captain of your emotional ship, sailing smooth seas no matter the weather. ⚓
SELF-LOVE SUPERSTAR
You'll be loving yourself so hard, it'll make Lizzo proud. Every part of you - flaws, quirks, and all - will be celebrated like the masterpiece you are! 🦄
UNBOTHERED QUEEN STATUS
You'll go from refreshing his texts every 2 mins to being too busy living your best life to even notice. Anxiety who? We don't know her! 💅
CONFLICT RESOLUTION QUEEN
Arguments transform from scary to productive. You'll navigate disagreements with ease, turning potential relationship landmines into opportunities for growth. 🤝
LOVE LIFE CURATOR
Instead of settling or forcing connections, you become the curator of your love life. You'll confidently choose who and what aligns with your most authentic self. 🎨
👉 IT'S A SISTERHOOD, NOT JUST A PROGRAM
👉 TAILORED TO YOUR MESSY, BEAUTIFUL REALITY
👉 ACTION OVER INFORMATION OVERLOAD
👉 WE KEEP IT 💯 (EVEN WHEN IT'S UNCOMFORTABLE)
👉 IT'S NOT JUST THEORY, IT'S A WHOLE VIBE
👉 WE MAKE HEALING FUN (YES, REALLY)
👉 WE'RE KEEPING IT REAL (AND REALLY AFFORDABLE)
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NEW THEME
EACH MONTH
Overthinking and Anxiety 🧠💭
Kick off your journey by tackling the #1 issue - constant overthinking. Learn powerful techniques to quiet your anxious mind, stop obsessing over every text, and find genuine inner peace in your relationships.
Month 1
Self-Trust and Confidence 💪🔮
It's time to trust your gut, babe! This month, we're focusing on developing rock-solid self-trust and boosting your confidence. Say goodbye to constant self-doubt and hello to making decisions with ease.
Month 2
Healing Past Traumas 🩹❤️🩹
Don't let your past haunt your present, hun! We'll dig down deep into healing old wounds, letting go of baggage, and creating space for healthy, drama-free relationships.
Month 3
Healthy Boundaries and Self-Worth 🛑💖
No more people-pleasing or putting yourself last! Learn to set boundaries like a boss, prioritize your needs, and create un-f*ck-able-with self-worth. You're the main character of your life, act like it!
Month 4
Communication in Relationships 🗣️💕
Scared to speak up? Not anymore! Master the art of expressing your needs, wants, and feelings without fear. Your partner isn't a mind reader - let's get you communicating like a pro!
Month 5
Jealousy and Insecurity 💚👀
Time to ditch the jealousy and embrace your unique awesomeness. We'll tackle insecurities head-on, stop the comparison game, and help you feel secure AF in your relationships.
Month 6
Qs? I've got As!
Q: How much time do I need to commit each week? 🕰️
Q: What if I can't make the live calls? 😩
Q: Is this just for girls in relationships? 🤔
Q: What if my partner isn't supportive of me doing this? 🚫
Q: I've tried like, everything. How is this different? 🙄
Q: What's the 411 on canceling HGG if I need to? 🤔💔
Future You: From Overthinking to Overjoyed 🎉
"I can't believe it! I used to be consumed by relationship anxiety, but now? I'm happily living in the moment, confident in myself and my abilities, and knowing when to say no. No more crazy highs and lows or that nagging fear in the back of my head. I'm energetic, motivated and feel absolutely unstoppable! This could be you after Clare's program, just sayin'!"
FUTURE YOU
CONFIDENCE CITY, SELF-TRUST ISLAND
Future You: Anxiety? I Don't Know Her 👋
"Remember when I used to obsess over every text and put my partner's needs before my own? Those days are history! Now, I'm waking up every day and doing me without feeling guilt or pressure. I go on breakfast dates with girlfriends, have protected self-care rituals, and meditation time. The best part? I have a supportive relationship where I'm able to set boundaries at work and in my relationship. Clare's program didn't just fix my love life, it helped me fall in love with myself!"
FUTURE YOU
NOTSTRESSING STREET, LIVING MY LIFE CITY
Future You: Living in the Now (and Loving It) 🧘♀️
"Is this real life? I used to be terrified of losing my relationship, but now I'm in a healthy, committed relationship without worrying or overthinking about what they're doing or what I'm doing wrong. I feel worthy and able to receive the love I give, and I'm finally secure in my relationship and calm. The best part? I know that securing a relationship doesn't mean that I could lose it at any moment. Clare's program didn't just change my relationship status, it changed my entire approach to love!"
FUTURE YOU
INTUITION AVENUE, TRUSTYOURSELF TOWN
Overthinking Detox Bundle
Unlock the secret to a drama-free mind with a replay of our 3-step masterclass and comprehensive workbook. Packed with anxiety-busting mantras, thought-reframing sentence stems, and journaling prompts, this bundle is your ultimate weapon against overthinking. Plus, get tips, tricks and curated resources to keep you the cool, calm, and collected partner you've always wanted to be! 🧘♀️💖🚀
Bonus One
Private Podcast: "Best Self" Guided Meditation
Alright, queen, it's time to get this confidence in your BONES! Pop in those earbuds and let's rewire that gorgeous brain of yours. We're taking all that juicy goodness from your workbook and turning it into a full-on vibe shift. No more half-assing your healing, babe. Ready to become the baddest version of yourself? Let's freaking go! 💁♀️✨🚀
Bonus Two
Simple Relationship Hacks to go from Anxious to Ease
This isn't just another fluffy training, babe. This HGG-exclusive replay is your golden ticket to breaking free from anxiety's chokehold on your love life. Packed with actionable strategies you can use TODAY to start feeling more secure, confident, and at ease in your relationships. Ready to make anxiety ancient history? This replay is your first step. Let's do this! 💪💖🚀
Bonus Three
🩷 TRUST YOURSELF, FOR REAL
🩷 SPEAK UP WITHOUT FREAKING OUT
🩷 STOP PUSHING GOOD ONES AWAY
🩷 BE PRESENT INSTEAD OF PARANOID
🩷 VALUE YOURSELF, NO MATTER WHAT
🩷 BALANCE "ME" AND "WE"
🩷 QUIT THE COMPARISON GAME
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Stop Letting Fear Run Your Love Life
Girl, imagine not spiraling every time he takes more than 5 minutes to text back. Picture actually enjoying your day instead of obsessing over whether he still likes you. That chill vibe? It's totally possible, and I'm gonna show you how to get there.
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Trust Yourself More Than Anyone Else
Your intuition is that straight-talking bestie who keeps it 💯. Time to stop drowning her out with anxious thoughts and actually listen. You'll learn to spot the difference between your insecurities spinning stories and your gut telling you what's up. No more creating drama when he's literally just at work, boo.
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Be That Girl Who Knows Her Worth
You know that friend who never puts up with BS? That could be you, boo. Imagine setting boundaries like a boss, speaking your mind without fear, and knowing deep down that you're a whole damn catch. That confident queen? She's already in you, and we're gonna bring her out.
I'M GETTING REAL VULNERABLE AND PERSONAL WITH YOU. 🥴
Why? Because I want you to know that I've been in your shoes, struggling with self-sabotage and anxious attachment in my relationships. (#thestruggleisreal)
I totally get how frustrating and painful it is to keep repeating the same patterns OVER AND OVER again, no matter how much you want something different.
In fact, let me take you back to one of my biggest relationship fumbles...
Once upon a time, in a land not so far away (aka my 20s), I decided to move cross-country from Virginia to Denver, Colorado. And yes, I totally uprooted my whole life for a guy at the time (we've all been there, right?). 🤦♀️
This guy was SUCH a sweetheart – kind, caring, and head over heels for me. He treated me like an absolute queen and had "husband material" written allllllll over him.
But despite having this amazing man by my side, I just couldn't get out of my own way.
My default behavior of lacking self-trust was EVERYWHERE, with thoughts like:
😬 "Does he actually like me, or is he just being nice?"
😬 "If I open up about my fears, he'll think I'm crazy and needy."
😬 "I feel like I'm not enough and he'll find someone better."
😬 "I should just leave him before he leaves me because I don't want him to hurt me"
I was stuck in a constant cycle of overthinking 👏 EVERY 👏 LITTLE 👏 THING, from his texts to his facial expressions. And sadly, my anxious behavior ended up pushing him away and ruining what could have been an incredible relationship.
After that heartbreak, I fell into the same patterns *again* and *again* in my other relationships. No matter how wonderful the person was, I always found a way to self-sabotage. Until one day, I got real with myself and said:
"ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!! 💣💥
THINGS STARTED TO CLICK. ✨
I rolled up my sleeves and did the hard work to:
🦋 Create unshakeable self-confidence to be ok no matter WHAT happens
🦋 Develop practical tools to stop my fears and insecurities in their tracks
🦋 Learn how to trust my gut, communicate my needs, and set healthy boundaries
🦋 Confidence that was un-f*ckwithable regardless of my relationship situation
And you know what? That inner work COMPLETELY TRANSFORMED my relationships.
These days, I'm married to an INCREDIBLE man who loves and adores me for *exactly* who I am.
And now, instead of constantly worrying that he's going to leave me, I can honestly say that I don't even entertain those thoughts anymore – because I DEEPLY know two truths:
1. This man adores me for EXACTLY who I am and our relationship is built on a foundation of trust, security, and mutual respect. 💯 I *know* we’re in for the long haul.
But even MORE importantly...
2. I've done the work to create a profound sense of self-trust and self-worth within myself. So even if the worst-case scenario happened (which is something I don’t even entertain anymore), I know that I'll be more than okay. I'm not just "enough" – I'm a whole, radiant goddess with or without a partner. 💓
That's the kind of unshakeable confidence I want for you too, babe. No more doubts, no more waiting for the other shoe to drop. Just a deep-seated KNOWING that you're wildly lovable and worthy of an amazing relationship (and if it doesn't work out, you'll still be thriving!).
I WANT THIS FOR YOU TOO, BABE 💕
I share this story with you because I want you to know that the kind of love and security you crave is 100% possible for you too.
The relationship where you feel safe, seen, and totally held is out there, looking for you just as hard as you're looking for it.
So the real question is: are you doing enough inner work right NOW so that when your person arrives, you'll be ready?
If not, then The Healing Girl Gang is here to help you get unstuck and accelerate your journey.
In The Healing Girl Gang, I'll show you how to:
🦋 Break the cycle of attracting unavailable partners and manifest your person
🦋 Develop UNSHAKEABLE self-trust so you can stop doubting their sincere intentions
🦋 Communicate needs with clarity and confidence instead of bottling everything up
🦋 Identify and stop your relationship triggers before they spiral into another fight
🦋 Go from calm on the outside but 😵💫 inside to TRUSTING THE PROCESS fully
You've got this, babe. I'm living proof that you can break free from relationship anxiety!
If you're ready to go all-in on your healing and manifest the love you deserve, then click here to join the Healing Girl Gang today.
Can't wait to spill all the HGG tea with you soon, babe! 🫖✨
YOU TOO ARE MADE FOR THIS JOURNEY 💖
Look, I get it. You might be thinking, "That's great for Clare, but my situation is different." Or maybe you're convinced you're too anxious, too damaged, or too [insert your favorite self-doubt here] to have that dreamy, secure relationship.
It took work, babe. Like, roll-up-your-sleeves, face-your-demons kind of work. But here's the tea: if I could do it, so can you. You're not "too anxious" or "too much". You're not "unlovable" or "destined to be alone".
This journey isn't just for the "lucky ones" or the naturally confident. It's for EVERY 👏 SINGLE 👏 ONE 👏 OF 👏 US who's tired of the same old relationship drama and ready to do something about it.
That means YOU, boo!
👇Let's do this thing!
JOIN NOW
Our Pinky Promise
TRY THE HEALING GIRL GANG MEMBERSHIP FOR 7 DAYS, RISK-FREE
I'm so confident you're gonna love this program, I'm putting my money where my mouth is. Jump into the Healing Girl Gang for a full week. If you're not feeling it, just hit me up and I'll refund every penny.
Seriously, what have you got to lose? Other than your relationship anxiety, self-doubt, and that pesky habit of checking his online status every 5 minutes. So go ahead, take the leap. Your future unbothered, confident self is cheering you on! 💖🎉
This program is for you if...
You're craving a girl gang that actually gets your relationship struggles 👯♀️💕
You want LIVE coaching and teaching every month, not just pre-recorded fluff 🎥🗓️
You're ready for a coach who shows up as much as you do (aka, a lot!) 💪🤝
You've tried therapy and podcasts but need help turning that knowledge into real change 📚➡️💫
You're ready to invest in yourself because YOU know you're worth it 💰💖
This program is not for you if...
You want a magic "fix my relationship" pill without doing any work 💊🙅♀️
You're not ready to admit that sometimes... you might be the drama 🎭🙈
You're not ready to be part of a positive, uplifting sisterhood (good vibes only!) 🌈🤗
You're not open to new perspectives or challenging your old patterns (spoiler: nothing changes if nothing changes) 🛋️🚫
You're not ready to bet on yourself (newsflash: you're the best investment you'll ever make!) 💰💁♀️
It's time to bet on yourself, babe. 🎉
Confident, secure, and unbothered you is waiting on the other side. Are you ready to meet her? 👑
The Healing Girl Gang is ready to welcome you with open arms.
© Clare Cui 2024
